In our recent session of Friendship 101, we delved into the core characteristics that define strong friendships, highlighting traits such as the ability to self-disclose, conflict resolution, and equality. We explored various types of friendships, including acquaintances, casual friends, regular, and best friends, each serving different roles in our lives. The class also emphasized the steps for starting conversations and the rules for trading information. To reinforce these concepts, interactive homework assessments were assigned, encouraging students to apply what they learned in real-world scenarios, ultimately enhancing their ability to make and keep friends.
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Making Friends Through Conversations - Starting a Conversation
I want to start a conversation with someone. Conversations can be fun and help me make new friends. Here are some steps I can follow to do this successfully.
First, I can casually look over at the person I want to talk to. I might glance at them while I am sitting in class or waiting for my coffee.
Next, I can use a prop, like my cell phone. Holding my phone can help me feel more comfortable. I might check my messages or scroll through social media for a moment.
Then, I can find a common interest. This might be something like a class we are both taking or a movie we both like.
Once I find that common interest, I can mention it. For example, I could say, “I saw that you’re in the Psychology class too. I think it’s really interesting!”
After that, I can trade information. This means I can ask them questions and answer my own questions too. For example, I could ask, “What do you think about the last lecture?” and then share my own thoughts.
I also need to assess their interest. I can look for signs like:
Are they talking to me?
Are they looking at me?
Are they facing me, or do they seem distant?
If they seem interested, I can introduce myself. I might say, “Hi, I’m Alex. It’s nice to meet you!”
When I trade information, there are some rules I should remember:
I can ask the other person questions to keep the conversation going.
I will answer my own questions too.
I should find more common interests to discuss.
Asking follow-up questions can show I’m interested in what they say.
I want to share the conversation, making it a two-way conversation.
I will avoid being a conversation hog by letting them talk too.
I also won’t be an interviewer; I want it to feel natural.
At first, I will not get too personal. I want to keep it light and friendly.
I feel happy when I can start a conversation, and I know that practicing these steps will help me connect with others. If I am ever confused, I can ask a friend for help or think about these steps again. It's great that I am trying to make new friends and share experiences with others.
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